Tuesday, August 14, 2007 @6:09 PM
Best friends for now?
Unlike some people I know, I don't have any friends whom I've grown close to since young and still play a big part in my life now, meaning still seeing each other frequently be it at uni, church, whatever. I've best friends or really close mates from primary school all the way to junior college and at each stage, we had really great fun, built strong bonds etc. Try as you may, separation is inevitable and by the time you realize it, everybody's heading different places and moving on with their lives. Before you start wondering if I'm still living in stone age with no phone, msn, facebook(it's addictive! u've been warned)/friendster, even blogs... YES, I do know their existence and I do use them to keep in touch with friends but... it's just not the
same anymore, if you get what I mean.
When I was younger, I used to read all those girly magazines and one of their favourite phrases was " Boyfriends come and go, but friends are forever" and the me then was nodding away and going uh-huh, uh-huh. But now, I feel like even friends come and go. You either leave a place for another and get new friends or your friends leave you for some other places and whatever. Ever heard of this chinese saying that goes "
bu zai hu tian chang di jiu, zi zai hu cheng jing yong you" which kinda translates into: the memory of being and time spent together is actually more important than an eternity together. And then there's the issue with people who change over the years which then sours friendship or relationship when the other party just can't accept them for who they are anymore. I think a lot of times, that's why long term relationships or even marriages fail. I have no idea why am I suddenly rambling bout all these either but it just kinda saddens me because life is so fickle.
Oh, and there's this facebook application called Polyvore which I'm so freaking addicted to. And I was so happy when some random stranger commented on this set I made and even made it a favourite :) That made (whatever little's that left of ) my day.

For now, I've kinda ran out of ideas. I actually only created 4 polyvore sets but I love browsing through all the items especially by colours. Go check it out if you're into making collages.
Time sure flies, am already going into 5th week of second semester next week. But I still have this chronic zit that's been there ever since I came back. Grrrr.... maybe I've been taking too much chocolates. Cocoa rush gave me a pimple rush instead. =_=
Can't wait for September to come :) I have the mid semester break and....
SNOW PATROL(!!!) to look forward to . Yippeee ... Spring's coming too and the cherry blossoms are blooming! But winter seems to be rather persistent. Putting up a strong fight just before spring comes and kick his ass away because the temperature has dipped and the winds are crazy. Just some random musing, I wonder if short and stocky people have a lower chances of being swept away by winds as opposed to those tall and lanky people? Since they have a lower center of gravity?
Ok, ok, that's enough of ramblings already. Wanna go back to the never ending movie quiz which I am also hooked on to.
There are a hundred things I need and want to do but the only thing I'm doing is using nonsensical facebook applications! I seriously need some help...